Your Ultimate Guide to Maid of Honour Dress Etiquette

While being asked to be a Maid of Honour is an honour, it also comes with the big duty of helping the bride, making sure the day runs smoothly, and looking your best. The process of choosing the right dress for the Maid of Honour can be very stressful, especially when you have to balance style, tradition, and comfort. This guide will help you feel confident in the world of dress etiquette, whether you're a bride picking out a dress for your best friend or a Maid of Honour learning what to wear.

1. What Does a Maid of Honour Wear?

Traditionally, the Maid of Honour wears a gown that coordinates with the bridesmaids, but with subtle details that help her stand out. This could be a slightly different neckline, a unique colour shade, or a statement accessory. The goal is to make the Maid of Honour stand out and match the rest of the bridal group.

Goddiva Tip: Opt for elegant details like sequins, lace accents, or a standout silhouette that sets you apart without stealing the spotlight.

2. Colour Etiquette: How to Choose the Right Shade

The colour of the Maid of Honour’s dress usually matches the wedding’s theme and the rest of the bridesmaids. However, she may wear:

• The same colour, different style – keeps the party coordinated but gives her a unique twist.
• A complementary shade – like blush vs. dusty rose, or navy vs. sky blue.
• A metallic highlight – think champagne, silver, or rose gold for a touch of glamour.

Unless the bride has chosen that look, don't wear anything white, pale, or too close to the bride's dress.

3. Dress Code Matters

Always follow the formality of the wedding:

• Black Tie: Floor-length gowns in luxe fabrics like chiffon, satin, or sequins.
• Semi-Formal: Midi or long dresses in softer silhouettes.
• Casual/Formal Mix: Flowy, playful dresses that still feel polished.

If in doubt, coordinate with the bride to make sure your look matches her vision.

4. Comfort is Key

Remember, the Maid of Honour is on her feet all day—helping the bride, giving a speech, leading the bridesmaids, and dancing the night away. Choose a dress that not only looks stunning but also allows you to move with ease.

Fabrics that stretch, straps that can be adjusted, and cuts that look good on everyone can make a big difference.

5. Accessories & Finishing Touches

The Maid of Honour’s accessories should enhance her look without overshadowing the bride.

• Shoes: Stylish but comfortable—block heels or elegant flats are a lifesaver.
• Jewellery: Keep it chic and understated; let the bride sparkle most.
• Hair & Makeup: Cohesive with the bridal party, but with slightly elevated details.

6. Goddiva’s Maid of Honour Picks

If you’re searching for a dress that blends elegance with affordability, Goddiva has you covered. There are many dresses, from long maxi dresses to sparkly gowns that stand out, that will make you look and feel great on the big day.

Some timeless favourites include:

• Sequin Maxi Dresses – Perfect for evening glamour.
• Chiffon Flowy Styles – Ideal for romantic or outdoor weddings.
• One-Shoulder or Bardot Designs – Elegant but with a modern twist. 

Final Thoughts

Being a Maid of Honour is all about celebrating your bride while feeling confident and beautiful yourself. Follow proper manners, stay true to the wedding's theme, and pick a dress that fits both the event and your own style. Goddiva's collection is very flexible, so you'll be able to find the right outfit to look great for your part.